Missing my sweetest part of Past

This one is just out of emotions… 

I would like to dedicate this one to all my friends, far from their homes and a few who really are feeling homesick these days… 

Don’t go for the rhyme and just try to feel, who knows you might like it as well :

I remember the time when papa was the most powerful man in the world…

I remember the time when I actually used to sleep in nights..!

I remember how I used to snuggle into my brother's arms…

And how afraid I was of heights…

I remember when I didn't know what clever or cunning meant and everything I knew was good…

Sometimes I miss my childhood..!

 

I remember the time when mom’s lap was the snuggest bed for me…

I remember how small things made me happy which now I can’t describe…

I remember how precious a small pencil could be…

And how ecstatically I expressed things I used to imbibe…

I remember how everyone spoke the language of love to me and no one was misunderstood…

Sometimes I miss my childhood..!

 

I remember how an outing meant everyone together…

I remember how our love wasn't restricted to Mother’s and Father’s day…

I remember the taste of the food mom made especially for me…

and how I never laughed when instead of happy, someone said gay…

I remember how playing was in our routine and we were the champs of the neighborhood…

Sometimes I miss my childhood..!

 

I remember how I used to rise early and go to school…

I remember how polishing the shoes was also a duty…

I remember the assembly, the classes and the friends…

with whom how a treat meant a pack of chips and a frooty…

I remember how we didn't care for the future and how we scribbled on those tables of wood…

Sometimes I miss my childhood..!

 

I don’t say I want to relive those days…

Neither do I complain against the life I live…

But I just wish things were simple again…

and we could live freely, without worries and see what pleasure it can give…

What all I want is an unassuming life although with all its excitements, and would steal those moments, if I could…

Sometimes I miss my childhood..!

Love

Not everyone in this world has the fate to cherish the fullest form of love.
Some are born, just to experience the abbreviation of it.

Rules + Regulations - Relationships = Resentment + Rebellion.

Balanced Living

With different color or pattern we follow in our daily life, we never concentrate on Balanced Living. I think the purpose of life is to improve. Here are some points, I wanted to make improvements:

• Spiritual: Commitment, active devotional, worship.
• Emotional: Development, in touch with and express feelings creatively.
• Intellectual: Continued learning, reading, training.
• Relationships: Close, intimate and nurturing.
• Physical: Regular exercise, rest, healthy diet, weight control.
• Family: Emotional involvement, connection, supportive, quality time.
• Relaxation: Stress and time management, fun, rest, play.
• Hobbies: Meaningful and fulfilling for creative expression.
• Financial: Living within means, responsible, saving.
• Professional: Contented, fulfilled, using your abilities.
• Service: Actively involved in serving others.
• Purpose: Having a clearly defined life purpose and working towards it.

Inspirational One..

एक किनारा था साहिल,
एक सहारा था साहिल,
एक प्यासा था साहिल,
एक आवारा था साहिल,
कल कल करती लहरों से आज भी क्यों टकराता था साहिल!
किसी का आरज़ू था साहिल,
किसी का आबरू था साहिल,
किसी का मंजिल था साहिल,
किसी का रास्ता था साहिल,
हर पल गुज़रते वक़्त का क्यों चस्म-ए-दीद गवाह था साहिल!!
साहिल से न पूछो दर्दे-ए-गम का सिला, गम के दीवारों से घीरा हुआ था साहिल!
ना कुरेदो उन ज़ख्मो को, दीवारों को हर पल तोड़ रहा था साहिल!
जल में रह कर भी प्यासा रह गया साहिल, भीग कर भी जल से जल गया था साहिल|
वक़्त मिले तो मोड़ देना उन नदियों को, अब के सावन वो छु ना पाए साहिल||

taken BY SAHIL

Relationship

There comes an end in your life when you realize who really matters, who in no way did, and who at all times will….


I think when one realizes this fact, they can be able to survive in the worst of situations happened to them on various relationships. It may be any kind of relation, be it your friend, spouse or family member. Once in a while you face the situation where you fall upon as they become worst fraction of your life. You always have options to choose.


Above of all the contradictions I believe that one of the deepest and most vital needs for humanity is to have trusting, fulfilling relationships so much, so that it fulfilled the next best option of your life. We simply overlook it sometimes since everything seems to be fine but we must be thoughtful about relationships we have had or those we have now. Some relationships build up by encouraging you and affirming you as a person and you have the most wonderful life among them, but there are some that are soul draining, energy zapping and leaving you with feelings of resentment, dejection, hopelessness, frustration, nuisance, guilt, shame and being frayed? It is very difficult to stay in a type where you acknowledge the behavior is frigid. Sometimes we fall upon and choose to stay in these types, being unaware that if we are doing so, then we are a part of the trouble and dilemma; one should look for aid.


Although there are some alternative by which we can control over in life - our thoughts, behaviors and reactions. We cannot control the way somebody treats us, but we do have 100 percent control over how we react – whether you stay, leave, speak up or accept it. I many times faced the situation on local trains, with friends and relatives. Every time you meet a situation, though you think at the time it is impossibility and you go through the tortures of the hopeless. One must have to meet it and lived through it. I sometimes find that forever after you are freer than you were before.

There are positive situations too that is a ultimate makeup for all; the realization is accepted that even between the closest human beings infinite distances continue, a wonderful living side by side can grow, if they succeed in loving the distance between them which makes it possible for each to see the other whole against the sky.

Just founded these lines somewhere :

There's one sad truth in life I've found
while journeying worth and while-
The only folks we really wound
are those we love the best.
We flatter those we scarcely know,
We please the fleeting guest,
And deal full many a thoughtless blow
To those who love us best.


There must be a knot into which we can tie relationships.